Have you ever stopped to think that Christians are complaining? Complaining creates disunity (division) and hinders the local church from accomplishing its mission. Here is a very brief list of things that Christians complain about:
- Home: Parental oversight, List of chores, Siblings.
- Church: Long preaching, Room temperature, Buildings, Activities/games.
- School: Assignments, Homework over break, Teaching styles, Rules or standards.
- Technology: Slow internet, Weak cell phone signal or battery life, loud printers.
- Sports: Referee calls or no calls, teammates, coaching decisions, substitutions.
- Miscellaneous: Weather, Politics, Finances, Roads, Long lines, etc.
Complaining is getting worse with each passing generation. Did you know complaining is very contagious and disobeys God’s Word?
In Philippians 2:14-16 the Bible clearly gives Christians the command and reasons to stop complaining.
1) The Command to Stop Complaining (v.14) - Notice the Bibles says, “…all things…” not some, most, or many, but ALL! That means every circumstance, trial, inconvenience, disappointment, frustration, or burden you encounter you must STOP complaining.
- “…without murmurings…” – Means to grumble. Reveals a bad attitude expressed through complaining and by being critical. Simply put, it is a negative reaction to something unpleasant or inconvenient.
- “…and disputings.” – Carries the meaning of inner reasoning, but more specifically refers to questioning, doubting, or debating (arguing) the truth of a matter.
So, we have clearly been commanded to stop complaining, but God gives us reasons why we must stop complaining.
2) The Reasons to Stop Complaining (v.15-16) - Christians must stop complaining for the following three important reasons:
- For your Spiritual Growth (v.15a) - Genuine Christians must pursue holiness and live above reproach. In other words, living in such a way where others cannot point a finger at you. If you desire to grow spiritually you must stop the complaining. Complaining indicates that you are discontent with your current circumstances and that God is not fair. Are you accurately reflecting your heavenly Father?
- For your Witness (v.15a-16a) - You live “…in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation…” that has deviated from the standard of Scripture (Isa. 53:6). Therefore, you have been commanded to “…shine as lights in the world.” The way you live your life as a child of God has a huge impact of the unbelieving world. When you live a Christian life that is free of complaining you gain leverage in your witnessing among unbelievers. Do people see a difference in you? Are you glowing with God’s truth in this dark world?
- For your Pastor (v.16a) - Paul desired the Philippians to stop complaining so at the day of Christ he would have reason to rejoice knowing that he did not serve to the point of exhaustion for nothing. Many Pastors pour their life into their flock and many times the sheep bite, criticize, and complain about their under-shepherd (Pastor) and disobey God’s clear command to stop complaining! Will you encourage your Pastor’s heart throughout all eternity by applying what he is biblically teaching you today?
Joyful Christians who are truly “working out” spiritually (Phil. 2:12-13) will stop complaining and arguing. Complain-free Christianity honors God!

